Thursday, 14 January 2016

How do I cope as a single Mum of 4?

Do you know sometimes I don't cope very well, but to be honest I think anyone would crack at times.  I'm a person that doesn't like blogging about the negatives, I can act negative sometimes but I don't like moaning on social media.  But...

Today I realised something, people like to see the raw truth, people like to see that your human, you aren't this positive person constantly, they can connect with you.  It doesn't mean you have to be obviously negative just explaining how you feel.

A little story, after school I brought the Children home and didn't stop because the children mainly my eldest wouldn't leave me alone so I didn't get a break.I decided they all needed a quick bath but this is where the  trouble started, I told them I was bathing Isaac first the almost 1 year old, so I ran the bath, my 3 year old decieded it was a great idea to throw the battery operated toys in into the bath so I wasn't very happy, then after I had sorted that out, my almost 5 year old banged his head, Victoria got stressed to the max.

I felt that I was unable to watch 4 children at the same time, in different room, I cracked.  My mum had to come over to calm me down as I wasn't happy.

Mum calmed them down and read them a story, even though it was difficult it was so lovely to see them reading books with mum.

So how do I cope? I stay positive, keep focused on what I love and help from family, mainly my mum.

Here is a photo!!

See you next time x

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