5 Reasons why I love my Business with Acti-Labs- Video

Hey Everyone! I hope you have or are having a great day!

I am making this blog into a mix of my life and Business as I really don't have the time to post in 2 different blogs etc!

So I have a Business with a company called Acti-Labs, the products are makeup and for the body!

So here is my video sharing my 5 Reasons why I Love Acti-Labs!

                                       Victoria xx

Even through tough times... Focus on what Matters and Think Positive

Tonight I have been seriously reflecting my life, mainly about the breakup with my Children's father.  I think that its because its the School Easter Holidays and I am looking after all 4 all the time, well except the day time on a Sunday.  So mainly the stress and frustration that I am left holding the babies is daunting.

Tonight I felt like writing about all the things that are driving me mad, mainly about my ex but I feel that that anger and anxiousness needs to go.  I remembered what I stood for, that it is so important to focus on what matters, think positive and know that good things will happen.

 Even though my Children are hard work, I would rather be in my shoes seeing them daily, laughing with them, cuddling them, playing with them, hearing their voices, seeing them grow, tucking them in bed than not.  They are so precious and really grow so fast.  They are my why, they are why I decided to leave a toxic relationship, they are the reason why I try my best to create a wonderful life for them.

I am proud to be their mummy!

                                      Love Victoria x

How do I cope as a single Mum of 4?

Do you know sometimes I don't cope very well, but to be honest I think anyone would crack at times.  I'm a person that doesn't like blogging about the negatives, I can act negative sometimes but I don't like moaning on social media.  But...

Today I realised something, people like to see the raw truth, people like to see that your human, you aren't this positive person constantly, they can connect with you.  It doesn't mean you have to be obviously negative just explaining how you feel.

A little story, after school I brought the Children home and didn't stop because the children mainly my eldest wouldn't leave me alone so I didn't get a break.I decided they all needed a quick bath but this is where the  trouble started, I told them I was bathing Isaac first the almost 1 year old, so I ran the bath, my 3 year old decieded it was a great idea to throw the battery operated toys in into the bath so I wasn't very happy, then after I had sorted that out, my almost 5 year old banged his head, Victoria got stressed to the max.

I felt that I was unable to watch 4 children at the same time, in different room, I cracked.  My mum had to come over to calm me down as I wasn't happy.

Mum calmed them down and read them a story, even though it was difficult it was so lovely to see them reading books with mum.

So how do I cope? I stay positive, keep focused on what I love and help from family, mainly my mum.

Here is a photo!!

See you next time x

Why I love Quotes so much

Sometimes I sit down on my laptop and just don't know where to start, then I decide I need to plan, then I start thinking too much about getting it perfect and guess what... nothing gets done.  I am sure I am not the only one.

Whats good is when you get started and get into the swing of things it becomes a habit so you are not sat there searching for inspiration.

So Why do I love quotes, when i'm in the struggle zone it gives me the motivation I need to just get started, just do it.

I know I should be blogging, so I just needed to get started.

You have to forget the negative thinking, the ego inside of you thats stopping you.

So if you are thinking about doing something, just do it :)